Several weeks ago as I was driving north on Route 5 from Oceanside, in Southern California, I was not pleased that, like all the other times I reluctantly have driven that route, cars were not moving. Fortunately this time I wasn't racing to teach a class or see a client. I was driving to meet my daughter and her beau in Laguna Beach, to celebrate my 65th birthday, and I was sitting in a virtual parking lot. Not that I'm unaccustomed to that! I lived in Philadelphia for twe